Sunday, April 14, 2013

MORE OF THE CHILDREN



Someone recently asked me if I am working with anyone other than Shaffique and Lokiru…the answer is YES!!!! There are so many boys here that need help…I am having to prioritize given the fact there is only 1 PT, namely me….

The Bethlehem Home houses around 200 + children. A good 1/3 of them are disabled in some way. Much of what I see includes: Cerebral Palsy (primarily), spinal cord injury, head injury, club foot, Down’s Syndrome, Epilepsy, mico-cephaly, and hydrocephalus.

There are multiple severe contractures resulting from non-treated CP and status post head injury. We also have several children who have no visible disability and who can move normally but present with learning disabilities and autism. These are just as severe a disability because if a child cannot manage self care on his own, then he will not have the opportunity to go to school and will need to rely on outside help for the rest of his or her life. That is, trusting that there is a place that will house them for their life span.

Sad to say, many of these children were found on the streets alone dropped by parents or family members unable or unwilling to care for them. Disability is still looked on by local people as a curse and this mentality is slow to change. The Brothers are giving them a chance at a comfortable life and environment of love and family and even the chance at school if they have potential.

Here are only some of the kids whom I have been working with:

1)   Peter: Around 7. Spastic Cerebral Palsy. No cognitive deficit. Did not speak and could not stand without help. Was able to scoot-crawl.
Peter and his new "duds" 

Now is standing most of the time but still has to hold onto something. Can stand for 1-2 seconds without support. Starting to verbalize his needs but needs reminders to speak up. LOVES to spend most of his time walking using the 4 Wheeled walker. Can maneuver it alone on level surfaces and can go up (not down) small ramps. Waiting for his loftstrand crutches to be built so he can walk on his own.

2)   Martin: Age unknown but around 6-7. Some form of sensory integration issue with ADD. Did not speak, tended to pick fights and bite the other kids. Unable to sit still or be held. Smiling despite being disciplined all the time. Not interested in learning. Tending to get himself into trouble most of the time.
Big toothless grin!

Thanks to my OT/PT friends (Robin, Darlene, & Barb, I have tried a few things with what they suggested. Martin is now able to repeat sounds with me…can make it through 1/ 2 of the alphabet before getting bored and running off; has started saying a few words (hello, sit down, stand up, walk) and is starting to make animal sounds with me (as long as I don’t look at him and am busy doing something else as I make these sounds with him) He is not biting much at all and is coming up to me for hugs (quick ones but hugs none-the-less)
        
3)   JUSTIN: Age unknown but around 6. Similar to Martin. Used to tap on you to get your attention and then point at nothing in particular and say tu tu. Was incontinent. Did not speak otherwise. Could not express what he wanted.
Favorite saying "Tsu Tsu" (which means he needs to pee)

Now, is able to say ¾ of the alphabet and repeat sounds. Better attention span than Martin. Now is able to repeat words but does not say them spontaneously. Is now continent thanks to watching me train Shaffique. Still has temper tantrums but will respond to being held and given attention.

4)   Abed: Age 10. Small for his age appearing more like 2-3. Most likely had a stroke when an infant but then closed head injury on top of that along with epilepsy. Was sleepy most of the day, unable to sit upright without support, drooled constantly, nystagmus (eyes rapidly moving back and forth), was sick with upper respiratory illness most of the time. Unable to feed himself. Not able to move on his own or crawl at all. Unable to hold himself in a 4 point position.
Now standing and starting to crawl!

NOW…thanks to the help of Douglass the Medical Officer, Abed is now stable medically, having less seizures and is now alert much of the time. He has not had an illness in over 3 months. He even just started GROWING now and has grown 3” in 2 months!!!

He can now maintain a 4 point and high kneel position on his own and is now even crawling on his bunk (usually over his bedmate). He can stand with minimal support for short periods of time and can advance his feet for walking when supported with his arms. He is drooling less and is able to put his own food in his mouth 25% of the time. He is now even reaching out to play with the other kids.

5)   TUSUBIRA: One of my favorites from day one. He is about 6. Was generally in a constant state of banging his head against the cement floor and crying or screaming. One of the volunteers thought he was possessed (had to do some education there). He has CP, has signs of a past head injury and is autistic. He was not able to make eye contact with anyone nor keep his gaze on any object at all. He did not engage with the environment (would not respond to people, other children or toys). Was unable to do much but sit and band his head.
Now recognizes his name

Now is able to reach out for toys and will even reach out for other boys. Will smile and laugh when engaged and has limited the head banging to when he is uncomfortable (tired, hungry, wet) Recognizes his name as he will sit up and look around when I call his name from across the room. He will make eye contact now for up to 5 seconds. THANKS to my OT friends, I have been able to teach the Brothers how to calm him down with spinning and rocking. He is starting to bear weight on his feet with help. He is not yet moving on his own but this is the next step!

6)   Ivan: Age unknown but around 10-11. He has CP and most likely some cognitive deficit (learning disability). Ivan always has a smile, even when he is ill, so it has taken a bit of familiarity to recognize when he is sick. We started out practicing kneeling and crawling. He couldn’t maintain a 4 point (on all fours) and had to scoot along on his bottom. He struggles to use both of his hands and cannot easily move his legs. Ivan’s goal is to “go to school”.
"I want to walk!" 

Ivan can now pull up to stand on his own. He can scoot along on the 4 wheeled walker; he can walk with 1 crutch and Moderate help. He can walk in my makeshift parallel bars with stand by assist and a lot of encouragement. He can now crawl in a 4 point (all 4’s position). He is now speaking his needs versus moaning or pointing.

7) Joseph: Around 8-10 yrs old. Spastic CP quad and partially blind. Non verbal initially though liked to sing. Very high energy, ADD, unable to focus and tended to bite and holler.
Likes to pretend he is blowing his nose when he sees me
as I have a constant one!

Now is learning to talk: Can say "My name is Joseph" Learning how to make the sign of the cross. Has many songs he loves to sing. Mimics everyone coming by and has an incredible memory for people and their names though struggles to pronounce words well. Now is walking with Min/Mod assist for 20 min or longer. Was unable to move on his own but can now scoot across the floor with encouragement. ALWAYS SMILING! Will melt your heart when he calls for you....is just as excited to see you when you walk in the dorm after being there all day as when you walk in first thing in the morning. Now, rarely bites (unless you don't respond to at least 10 calls of your name)

There are more kids that I see daily and many more that need attention. We can use any help that anyone wants to give…even if only a month or two! I hope that this will inspire someone to donate their expertise and training in helping these children.

I have very limited background in pediatrics but despite this, you can see that utilizing basic PT problem solving can result in HUGE changes as can be seen above!!

COME VOLUNTEER!  I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT YOU WILL NEVER REGRET IT! 

Friday, April 12, 2013

THE BROTHERS


MEET THE BROTHERS


I have introduced you to the some of the people, the kids and the adventures, BUT the Brothers here are a tight family that make the MOP world go ‘round.

Lots of HUMOR

It is hard to put into words the quality of human being make up the life of a Brother. I feel blessed to be around these special people. I have learned a lot about truly joyful service. There is NEVER a bad day…no one comes to the table with frowns or a grumpy attitude…there is always joy in their morning greeting…always smiling. I never hear them crab, argue or complain.

The residents LOVE the Brothers!


It doesn’t matter how many times the trucks break down, or that there is no money in the coiffeur…it doesn’t matter if the power goes off or the power surge fries the computer and printer cords (for the 2cnd time)….doesn’t matter if all there is to eat is a cup of tea and a piece of dry bread in the AM…doesn’t matter if the truck doesn’t come until 7:40 PM to pick them up instead of 6 PM….doesn’t matter if they get assigned a second, third or fourth duty because a fellow Brother is sick…doesn’t matter if they are up all night doing paperwork…the door remains open and a smile ever on their face.


Ready to greet the boys with a smile despite working hard

Serving the community
I am learning from them the kind of person I want to be. They bring out the best in each other and exemplify what a FAMILY truly is.
These are the words that come to mind…

Kindness

Humility

Always willing to help

Always smiling

Sincere Caring

Laughing, Funny and Joking

Offering to help, Always

Forever Smiling
Joyful service

Honest

Compassionate

Playful

Inquisitive










The Missionaries of the Poor motto is "Joyful service with Christ on the Cross" 
They certainly exemplify this in a most beautiful way! 

Thursday, April 11, 2013

UPDATE ON SHAFFIQUE

AHHH...SHAFFIQUE! (or Shafique-eeee as he is affectionately called here) He is such a character and very well loved by all....soo now....the little guys is walking everywhere...ramps, steps and all without help. He still struggles with balance and tends to stagger a bit. You can see that he has hydrocephalus (where the ventricles of the brain are enlarged because the CSF fluid does not drain properly) He has a shunt to help divert the fluid but shunts only last 3-5 years at the most. Shaffique's shunt is no longer working properly so we are going through the steps to get him set up for surgery.


Here are some snapshots of this little guy now..he is a bit of a monkey...standing on his head...doing flips...in general, giving me a heart attack! He is speaking fluently in Luganda and English...he is helping me out with some of the boys who are disabled by interpreting for me or watching them when I have to leave for a moment. It is hard to believe that just in October, this little guy said very few words, was having regular temper tantrums and could not walk without someone helping him....and even then only for a few feet.

Giving Sister Carol a heart attack!
Shaffique doing a "flip" between the beds
It is NOT because of me....for those of you, like I used to be, who are afraid to tackle pediatrics...know that once these kids are shown how to move, they do all the work on their own...we are just a springboard...you see the strength of the human spirit...wanting to move and integrate with the environment...once on the right path, the kids just "TAKE OFF"...we need to continue to do the same...never stay put or stagnant...keep moving on!


POST FLIP response...
"Sister Carol, why are you soo upset?"
He has a helmet to wear to protect his head as his balance is not yet perfect. He likes all hats...preferably NOT the helmet though...
Shaffique helping me with Tusubira (one of my boys with CP and Autism)
I have given Shaffique the assignment to talk to and hug Tusubira
whenever he can to help Tusubira learn to integrate with his environment...
Shaffique takes his job seriously and has been helping me now for the last 3 months!
Shaffique's new favorite hats....

Shaffique with his dorm mates and
Brother Stenslous

OK...this is too cute!

With Sister Anna's hat...eating a chapati
I feel blessed to have seen the progress....It is truly a God thing...how lucky am I!!!!

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

REGULAR LIFE AND SNAPSHOTS

Life clicks on here as it does anywhere else...there are always problems that need to be fixed, people behind the scenes that keep things going without any fan fare...things to see that are normal here...celebrations for birthdays, feast days, vows....

One of the daily issues tends to be the transportation...OK...we have a van, a pick up truck and 2 large open bed trucks....usually, 2 of the 4 are broken down at one time....much of the time 3-4 are broken down...we then have have to walk, take bodas or hire a van. If they not breaking down, we are out of gas. One or the other.
Julius the Busega secretary (L) Medson (the driver in red) and Brother Josephat
waiting for the radiator to cool off. 

Recently, the van was overheating....now...the radiator is under the front seat where the passengers sit....I remember the day before going to the airport to escort the Sisters off to Jamaica....by the time we got back, we kept hearing a boiling noise and the temps in the van were rather high....turns out the radiator was BOILING!
cooling off the engine

Well...the next day my seat in the front was getting hot as we all drove to the hospital to visit a boy and an older man we sent there for surgery (yes...we DO visit the sick in the hospital on the way home from work...usually we are a sight to behold...a group of at least 18 brothers and a hand full of staff filing into the hospital and surrounding the beds of our sick...it is really heartwarming). The Brother and I sitting closest to the boiling radiator exited the van ASAP. They were laughing at me as I said I'd rather walk home than experience 3rd degree water burns! My seat was right above where Medson is pouring water.

The driver...again...skilled in all aspects or emergency road side repair as well as driving, managed to cool it off with buckets of water and get us home safely...where we parked the van for at least a month before it was fixed...again...requires money...needs to wait for donations....this is LIFE with "Beggars" as the brothers call themselves.
They really do change colors! 

One of the things Brother Sonny does to lighten things up is to pick chameleons off the bushes and chase Medson around the parking lot...for some reason, the Ugandans are deathly afraid of chameleons...they fear them as you would a very poisonous snake or spider....I have to admit...it is rather funny to see a grown man screaming like a little girl and knocking everything over to get away from such cute critters!
Oscar and I with the critter...after Medson ran away
The Matrons, who work so hard in the dorms, often need things to celebrate....Sister SUE brought over a handfull of donated scrub tops and asked me to give them away...we both decided that the Matrons needed something to work in. It is a tough job and one is covered in all kinds of "stuff" by the end of the day...having something that does not stain, is easy to clean and dries fast is a HUGE gift...I was the lucky one to play SANTA...here are the Matrons with their new "uniforms" as they called them...
THANKS SISTER SUE!!! 

They were soo happy and proud!
NOW...we all know that behind every well run machine is a woman behind the scenes...it is here as well...there are many women whom the Brothers rely on for regular help...music, cleaning, cooking and hosting of parties...one such woman is "Momma Flora". Everyone knows Momma Flora...the MOP in Uganda would not be able to function without her...she is one of the main supporters when it comes to money, help and most importantly FOOD! It is Momma Flora who does all the cooking for the feast days and celebrations of the Brothers...it was Momma Flora who provided all the food for the kids on their beach trip...She is humble, quiet and always with a smile...you would have NO idea it was she behind all this unless you were told.
Humble Momma Flora with the kids and one of the Novice Brothers at the beach

I salute you MOMMA FLORA! AND ALL the women behind the scenes making the world go round! 

Monday, April 8, 2013

AN UPDATE ON LOKIRO!

You may have remembered Lokiru, our singer who was passionate about his music...I had a picture of him in a prior blog on Jan 20th 2013:
Lokiru, singing one of his 200 songs
with CHI ME ME TE (passion)!!
Lokiru worked hard in PT to the point he was able to walk more than scoot along the floor; loved kicking the soccer ball and wanted to go to school. Well...his dream came true this term. He improved to the point he was accepted at the boarding school for the blind.
Ivan, Robert and Lokiru
Douglass in the back (in orange)

I have to say, I was a bit worried about him...sort of like an over anxious mother.  Lokiru is sensitive, needs much TLC and is easily anxious. He is a very smart boy, speaking at least 3 languages and is able to recognize us all by sound. I was not sure how he would do as many of his dorm mates help him out with ADLs (bathing, dressing etc)

He begged me for a radio before he left....I didn't find out until the day before that he was going and had many commitments that day. I was in a panic trying to get my work done and then shop for a small radio for him and then drop it off before he left. He was SOO HAPPY! I then helped the dorm matron lace up his new school shoes...you all remember those days, don't you? The smell of new leather and shoe polish, the new uniform and socks, the book bag...and for Lokiru, a trunk for all his things.

I was shedding tears as I laced up his shoes. Lokiru was excited about his new adventure and only wanted to be sure his radio was packed. I was sad to see him go. Off he went with a wave and a "Bye Sister Carol!"...I didn't realize the school was a good 1.5 hours away...ahhh...soo far.
Lokiru clapping when he finds out
there is chocolate for dessert!

Days and weeks went by...no impromptu songs being pounded out on the picnic table by Lokiru...it was sadly quiet without his tell-tail sounds in the background of every day life. I grew to miss him...then one day when Douglass, the Medical Officer and I were chatting about him, I found out "visiting day" was coming up in a week. This is a day when the schools are open for visitors for the young borders...families come bringing dinner and treats and to spend time with the students.

I asked permission from Brother Sonny, the Apostolate Director and Douglass volunteered to go with me. I hired Alex, the wonderful driver to take us and the Brothers cooked us up some good food to take alone. YES...I brought treats! Sodas, chips, cookies and chocolate!

I was nervous wondering if Lokiru would even remember me. We arrived and checked in and they led us to the dorm where he stayed. No Lokiru...we were walking back when one of the kids shouted, "here he comes!"...There was Lokiru walking with a light hand assist of one of the teachers across uneven rolling grassy terrain....and NOT falling! I went running towards him....I shouted "Lokiru! I missed you!"
Robert enjoying his feast! 

His first response..."Sister Carol! Where is my radio!!" I guess that answered my question about memory...hahah. I gave him a BIG hug and kiss on the head and he was laughing and jumping up and down when he realized Douglass had come as well. Turns out, MOP has 2 other boys there...we found them all and sat down for a nice picnic lunch...visiting was a treat and the candy a BIG hit! We invited another couple boys to join us as they had no family to visit them...it was sad...about 3/4 had family there and 1/4 had no one. The family-less boys seemed resigned to this but I was sad for them. They were very happy to join in the treats. One of the older boys from MOP said how much they appreciated the visit on visiting day...it meant the world to them. I am so glad we went for this reason alone.

Lokiru looked good...he was happy, was not complaining of anything even the food (which was his habit at Busega as he HATED porsho) he has many friends here, though blind, who lead him around and help him with the basics of dressing and bathing. He was walking everywhere! All terrain including grass, rocks, dirt and hills and was not falling. The school was located in the country wich was beautiful, quiet, with BIG trees chickens and lots of ROOM! He was doing OK in school despite not having been there in years and was passing all his classes which is what matters. Turns out he is on his 200th song! He gave us a nice concert before we left.

Lokiru's radio was lost early on...I figured this might be the case, so I brought another one with me....when we left, all 3 boys were fiddling with the new radio and laughing. They waved goodbye and were back to being engrossed in their new gadget....Lokiru was happy...not begging to come back and was moving better than when he left. He had new friends, many friends. Though I was sad to leave him again, I would not have it any other way.
Lokiru singing to the radio, earbuds in...
not listening to a word Sister Carol says! 

SEE YOU AT SUMMER BREAK, LOKIRU!


Saturday, April 6, 2013

ANOTHER SPECIAL DAY...1 SISTER AND 21 BROTHERS MOVE FROM CANDIDATE TO ASPIRANT! ON: 3/18/2013

Father Henry before mass with 2 of the Senior Aspirants
(Br. Stenslous on the L and Bro. Charles on the R)
This is a big day in the life of a young person trying to discern his or her vocation. A BIG step. Sister Calister was one of the original Sisters who were present when I arrived. She has made the decision to move from Candidate to Aspirant. This special ceremony was held on the feast day for St Joseph and took place in our St Joseph's chapel (located in the Juniorate where we stay).

Sister Calister making her profession
to the MOP
It is a beautiful ceremony...the second one I had been blessed to experience. I liken it to a wedding day. The Candidate tells Father they are making this decision of their own free will and then asks Father for permission to join. Father then blesses them and then their new clothing. All the old clothing (all of it) is given to the poor and needy and the Sister/Brother takes on the habit of the MOP and receives his/her cross. They go off to dress and come back to be welcomed into the community!

Sister Calister in her new habit..now officially
an MOP Candidate escorted by her fellow Sisters
This time, there were 21 Kenyan Candidates! They are a lively group, full of music and passion for the work of the MOP. Father is increasing his fold rapidly!
ALL of the new Aspirants including Sr Calister!


CONGRATULATIONS and
BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILIES!

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

A DAY AT THE BEACH ON: 03/14/2013

One of the many things the kids look forward to is a day at the beach, hosted by Fr Raymond. It is usually biannual and is a much looked forward to event that includes....lots of snacks, a picnic lunch, sodas, ice cream and lots of playing in the water.

The Brothers and the boys!
I am the red dot in the water with one of the first boys
I cajoled to go in!

All of the children have gone this winter save for the disabled boys. This was due to multiple schedule changes and other life events. The boys kept asking Father, "when are we going to go?". It broke his heart, so he made a decision to get it set up before Easter. Ya...that meant in 3 days.

It is more of a challenge to get 50 disabled boys into 5 vans along with their wheelchairs and accoutrements. How he manages to coordinate all this is beyond me. I was a bit nervous as I would be the only PT going, along with Douglass the medical officer and a few matrons. We also had a hand full of Novice Brothers. There were about 8 or so able bodied boys that had been missed in prior trips going as well.
Vincent and Noah happy to be at
the beach!

Somehow, we managed to cram them all in the vans and head out before 9 AM (an amazing feat of skill, coordination and a lot of running around especially for Africa). The only hold up was our van being stopped and ticketed by the police for carrying items other than passengers in the van". We had most of the wheelchairs in our van....Ya....lets call it what is really is...can you say B R I B E?

It was overcast and cool...had been raining all night and into the AM that day. The kids didn't care. They were literally bouncing out of their seats with excitement. We managed to get most of them to the pavilion for sodas and biscuits (sweet bread cookies). Then we hauled them all and their stuff to the water's edge.

One of the Brothers introducing
Alex to the water

The able bodied kids didn't waste one moment and jumped right in! The water was actually warmer than the air and was really nice...the matrons started dangling the disabled boys' feet in the water...."NO WAAY!" These kids were going in!!!! Not many African's know how to or are comfortable swimming....it took me about 20 min to convince one the older boys who was a paraplegic, to "try it out!"
Nicholas (the gate guard) bringing me tea and biscuits
after a swim with the boys.

Phillip and I.
Phillip is an aspiring musician...ahh the sunglasses
all the kids had a turn at wearing them as they were most popular despite a missing piece!

I forgot how much a teenage boy can weigh...these kids are all muscle! I hauled him on my back and he was laughing like a little kid! Everyone was pensively holding their breath at the water's edge wondering if the Muzungu was going to drown the kids...one by one.

FINALLY...when they all saw the fun they were missing (they had never gone IN the water on prior beach trips...how BORING)..they all clamored for a turn. It didn't take long for the brothers or the medical officer to follow suit. Soon we had a huge water fight with at least 10 kids in the water at a time. Douglass and the Brothers were each carrying in 2-3 at a time. Later, they had a nice motor boat ride around the lake and even saw a live camel!
The Brothers and Boys posing by Barack and family
OK...not sure why this statue is there, but hey! 

Lunch time! CHICKEN and CHIPS! YUM!
The boat ride and lots of smiles
Brian, the man who has stolen my heart! 
The fun part of the trip was trying to teach Pius how to eat an ice cream cone. He had never eaten one and kept pushing it away shaking his head. He had been trying to bit it and it was much too cold for his teeth...with some coaching and miming from myself and the brothers, he managed to figure it out! Now, whenever Pius sees me, he mimics eating a cone and puts his hand out with a smile and pleading eyes!
Brother Peter always making sure there are
treats for the boys...chapati's for all!

Douglass our MO with the boys and I. Shaffique is not smiling
because we are on the edge of a steep hill and
he thinks he might fall off!



Nicholas posing with the camel (with no apparent owner)
Even the Muzees (older men) had a good time! 
Sibiri (our new driver) and Sowedi the conductor!
on a sugar high and packed in a van ready to go home
A FUN TIME was had by ALL!
This was one of the most memorable trips for the disabled boys who had never experienced being "IN" the water before...
all it takes are children to teach us "fuddy-duddy" adults what real fun can be! 
all I can say is..... "GO PLAY!"